Questions regarding Adultery
I was just wondering....
whatever happened to the vows you take with this guy...to love them through thick and thin???
Where does the Bible stand on this??
What happened to giving someone a second chance [Otherwise, are we any different from death penalty proponents?]
What about emotional adultery? [We should actually start a new discussion on THAT]
What if he cheats first, and then you cheat to get even...does that settle the score?
What about the women who KNOW their guys are cheating, but remain silent...are they cowards?
What about the speech you will give your children when the two of you decide to break up? Do u tell them the truth, or sugar-coat it?
Suppose you do choose "forgive, but not forget"...and the guy goes on to cheat a second time, is that the final straw, or do u forgive again?
I also remember something Dr. Phil had said..."Forgive...Forget are all the same...they are just play of words"...is that true?
What if he doesnt have sexual intercourse, but has the side trimmings?
In case a guy does cheat, what would you want him to tell you (that he made a mistake/ he does not love you/it was a one off thing/you llok ugly and sex with you sucked/you are too busy raising your kids and i want entertainment}?
Does ANYTHING justify adultery?
For those who voted "Not forgive , not forget' ...Would you rather have him keep quiet about it, and not confess?

**This is NOT aimed at YOU matty_girl, just some potent questions to get people to think.**
Thx
--Disclaimer: No Offence to anyone--
--Zenobia