Tatoos v Piercings?

i've been wanting to get a tatoo of a star on my left inner wrist.. like the one Gisele Bundchen has. but due to the pain factor, and also on account ofthe fatc that i get bored very easily, i have not taken the plunge. However, i do draw with a blank ink pen motifs and designs where i want on my body... today i got complemented that my penned design of a star looked like a real tatoo!
Piercings i wouldnt do simply bcoz i wouldnot be wearing clothes that reveal my navel anyways... so whats the point if noone can see it.
Ok, lets discuss whats the most erotic place to get a tatoo or peircing?

zenobia

The older guy conundrum

i am a 23 yo female from Bombay in India. I have gone out with nothing but older men. MUCH OLDER men. i started "dating" at 19 and then i had gone out with a 43 (yes, FORTY THREE) yo English guy. Since then i have gone out with a 47 yo Irish guy, 36 yr Italian stud, and so on. the youngest guy i have gone out with was 26 when i was 21... but some how i didnt quite enjoy being "among equals" so to speak. i enjoyed being taken care of, nurtured by older men... and in return i obviously made them feel more attractive, less old. Plus , younger men dont even have the courtesy to pick me up and drop me off. Call me old fashioned, but i LIKE that! My last date was over eight months ago due to lot of office work. Plus, for the first time in my life due to spending over 12 hrs daily besides Indian guys, i feel i have a crush on my (very married) boss, his colleage etc --something that has made me the butt of too many office jokes. But hey! Makes the day go by faster.
Ohh.. and i forgot..lets not forget that older men(at least older actors, musicians) are so damn sexy. Think Sean Connery, Michael Douglas, Rod Steward and Sting!! Ohh La La:))And i would definately pick one of these over say, ben affleck or Leo! i need a MAN and not a mere boy.
So my view is who cares about the age (other than my parents hehehe).
zenobia